Can you suggest some public places to do "it"?

Sex in public is still something you need to do in private, so when looking for a private public place, here are some possible options. Try to find a secluded area in a park or a campground. An intimate wooded area or an out of the way pasture are definite places to lie down and get laid. For those of you who like to stay closer to home, try the roof of your apartment building, or your very own backyard. If you're more adventurous, try a playground after dark, or possibly even the office where you work, as long as it's long after business hours. Looking for riskier business? Check out the back row of an undercrowded movie theater, a parking garage, a car, or the co-ed dressing room of one of those large department stores. Just remember that not everybody appreciates sex in public, so be careful where you are and what you do. But if and when you do it, enjoy the moment. Between the adrenaline rush and the sexual energy, it can be a really good time.

At what age does a guy/girl reach their sexual peak?

I'm not big in believing in sexual peaks, but certain "education" will have you believe that for a man it's around 18, and for a woman, it's somewhere around 30. I say boo on that, and that's kind of weird cause I never say "boo." Here's the deal, boys are full or raging hormones, as are women, but women don't generally get comfortable with, or in, their bodies until they're a little bit older and a little more sure of how to obtain and prolong sexual enjoyment. Now, scientifically speaking, and according to Dr. Sandor Gardos of www.mypleasure.com, if you want to define "sexual peak" by hormone levels, both men and women will reach their peak by their mid 20s. Personally, I like to think that your sexual peak is achieved when you truly find sexual satisfaction, and that definitely comes later in life, and in love. That also means, however, that I'm not big into defining or limiting the time when one has the best sex of their lives. Maybe, just maybe, we peak a few times over the course of one lifetime, when we really click with somebody and can express our love both physically and emotionally. Wouldn't that be peaky?

What do you think of office romance?

Wanking where you work is one thing, copulating with co-workers is another. Before you do anything about an office sweetie, I would check on your company's policy about "inter"dating. If there is no policy, I still say don't do it. Try to avoid falling in lust, like, or love with a co-worker, because it's not generally going to end all peachy keen. Sure, while you're in the thick of it, it might seem like the most wonderfully marvelous and easiest relationship ever, but when it's over, it's usually not fun or easy, and it's almost definitely going to end up screwy. Think about it: You have to see the person on a regular basis. They might even be a superior and then you have to deal with not only seeing them, but with the power play they're going to pull on you for whatever it is that made it end in the first place. This is especially true if one of you is left with a broken heart, because seeing someone on a daily basis is like pouring salt in a wound (although I've never poured salt in a wound, and don't know if I ever would.) It's more like not putting Neosporin on a cut, and therefore it takes more time to heal. Plus, you'll continue to know more than you'll want to about the person you aren't having sex with anymore. Or maybe you'll both fall madly in love, and everyone at the office will be so happy for the two of you, and you'll name your first baby after the boss. I don't know. I'd just avoid going there if you can. And you can. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, don't mess up your own bowl.

How can you tell if someone is going to be good in bed?

You can't completely know if someone's going to be good in bed until you get them into bed and "screw their brains out". Now, that being said, there are some things that I like to look at, as sort of possible tell-tale signs regarding a person's potential "sexability." Are they a good dancer, do they have rhythm? Odds are if they can move their hips and shake their ass, then they can rock your mattress too. Do they have generally good grooming habits? Do they smell good, or do they have body odor, and what about their clothes, are they wrinkled and messy, or ironed and neat? If they care about their presentation, odds are they'll care about how you see them (meaning, they'll try harder to be good). But the truth is you can't know for certain if someone is going to be good in bed unless you actually get laid by them. That's the only way to know.

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